BWP is anything but rude. I mean sure, BWP was a little strict when I said something I shouldn't have, but I should've thought my post through first.
What I'm saying is, I think you need to think through something before you post it, and, word choice matters. If you really need something urgently, you still need to ask politely. If you have a bad reputation, then I think people will act against you.
If BWP was rude, how would his account still be here after 7 years?